How We Do Family: From Adoption to Trans Pregnancy, What We Learned about Love and LGBTQ Parenthood There's a weird mythology in conservative circles that "queer parents" would be a negative influence or even is an oxymoron. Enter Trystan and Biff, who promptly adopted their niece and nephew to keep them out of Child Protective Services and raise them in a loving environment. And love is a renewable resource, building and perpetuating itself into a sum greater than its parts, eventually publicly carrying their own pregnancy, by Trystan, the father. Now with three children, the family has quite a bit of wisdom and advice to share young parents, queer or not!